Myth Busting That Quote “How You Do Anything Is How You Do Everything” Let’s Get Real!

What if the secret to a happier life isn't doing everything with equal passion, but giving yourself permission to show up differently for different things? There's a popular saying that's been making people feel guilty for years: "How you do anything is how you do everything." While it sounds wise, this phrase oversimplifies the beautiful complexity of being human. Letting go of perfectionism means recognizing that your varying levels of enthusiasm aren't a character flaw—they're what make you real.

Whether you're someone who brings fierce dedication to your work but a lighter touch to household chores, or you're passionate about creative projects but resistant to paperwork, you're not alone. This episode explores why good enough is actually perfect, and how embracing your natural rhythms across different areas of life can lead to more joy, authenticity, and self acceptance. You'll discover that different tasks deserve different beats, and that's exactly what makes your life complete.

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In this episode you’ll learn

• Why the "how you do anything is how you do everything" mindset creates unnecessary guilt and how to reframe it

• The difference between healthy striving based on core values versus perfectionism driven by performance

• How to identify which tasks deserve your full enthusiasm and which ones just need "good enough"

• A practical two-column exercise to separate your joy tasks from your resistance tasks (and how to make the hard stuff 10% more enjoyable)

• Why your varying levels of energy and passion are signs of being human, not signs of lacking integrity or character

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