10 Behaviors that Block Happiness
Spring is the time for new beginnings and that means Spring Cleaning to let go of what is not serving you. We all seek that elusive quality of “happiness.” Here are some things you can place your awareness on and clean out of your life so you can be happier.
Impressing. What you have —your possessions, your accomplishments—don’t result in real relationship or lasting happiness.
Blaming. Your response to any situation is your choice. Try making it a learning opportunity—taking responsibility is empowering.
Controlling. It doesn’t help you feel good about yourself. Honor your boundaries, but make space for others’ needs and choices, too.
Criticizing. We are all unique and different, not better or worse. Appreciate the differences instead of zeroing in on shortcomings.
Whining. Complaining is ineffective, whereas asking for what you want is liberating.
Clinging to what is known. When you’re feeling afraid or insecure, be willing to let go of the familiar, take a risk and try something new.
Being Ungrateful. Stay aware of all the gifts and blessings that you do have. Express gratitude and happiness will follow.
Preaching. Another form of judging. Find more fun and empowering ways to share your knowledge.
Negative Self-talk. Train yourself to notice your mind’s chatter. Working towards changing negative thoughts to positive ones will transform your life.
Fear. Don’t let fear get in the way of progress. Whatever you’ve been dreaming, get going on it. “Feel the fear and do it anyway.”
How have you been able to overcome these negative behaviors in your life? How have you become better at recognizing these behaviors and stopping them? Share with us below…
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I was at the grocery store today and forgot that I canceled both my debit cards as I was ordering replacement cards. When I got to the register to pay, I looked like a real ding bat. Of course, the line was long behind me. But keeping this post in mind about negative self-talk, I was aware of what I said to myself, and that made all the difference. I came out of that line feeling more empowered than if I had told myself what an idiot I was and on and on. Thanks for the great tips, Carolyn!